Shenanigans!

Weekly Update:
Monday, 20/9/53

    Monday we had another quiz in Buddhism, then just regular lectures in Gender.  It was Dad's Birthday (yay!) so I called home to talk to him while hanging out outside.  It was just a lounge-y sort of evening, hanging out with my friends and studying...a little!

Tuesday, 21/9/53

      Basically the same as Monday, sans birthday :)

Wednesday, 22/9/53

     Today after Economic Development I went to the orphanage again, although this time by myself.  Since there were no details to go over, I had about 45 minutes before they needed me for laundry, so I explored the grounds and dozed off in the playground until it was time to get washing!  We went around to the rooms to put away the laundry we had folded, and collected the dirty laundry of the various rooms, then washed it and hung some of it to dry, putting the rest in the dryers.  Then I watched TV with the staff until the children woke up!  It was nice to talk to them, I told them my Thai name and they loved it!  Soon the whole staff knew, and I spent the rest of the day hearing "Fa Sai!" and running after the caller.  I spent the entire 2 hours with the 2 year olds, carrying them around, rocking them, helping them snack and drink their milk, etc.  It was another day full of fun, and again, I was exhausted when I got back.  I did, however, have the energy to make it to the Night Bazaar to shop and hang out before passing out in bed!

Thursday, 23/9/53

     Thursday passed slowly, although fun, with speakers in both Buddhism and Gender.  In Buddhism, a group of Ajan Alan's monk students came to talk to us.  Most of them had been studying English for 5-9 years, so they were quite articulate.  It was so interesting to hear their analogies, life stories, and advice.  It was also really fascinating to hear them tell stories from the Dhamma, because they could word for word recite the same things I had read in my book!  After lunch, we had a quick lecture in Gender before Remi, a kathoey friend of Ajan Stephen's, came to talk to us about her life as a kathoey.  A kathoey is, in essence, a transgendered person, but in reality, they are so much more.  Its hard to describe the difference without knowing what Thai culture is about and their views on sexuality, but often we see "Lady Boys", as they are commonly referred to as, who are more beautiful than biologically born women!  Dinner was at the cafeteria before a relaxing evening of reading and watching Robin Hood.  I went to bed early, saving up my energy for Friday!

Friday, 24/9/53

     Friday morning was sans class, so after lunch I had Thai language class at 1:00, and then nothing until 6:30 pm, when we met to go on our field trip for our Gender & Sexuality field trip (*Caution; the field trip was to the sex district, if you don't want to know, skip to Saturday*).  We started the night by having a 30 minute roam fest down the street to visit a bar or two and observe the girls out front.  My group found a really fun bar, and the girls were so nice and fun and were dancing with us and talking to us, asking us questions, etc. Very personable, as are most of the bar girls that we've met thus far.  Afterwards we went to Spotlight, a go-go bar nearby that we had actually passed a few times.  We had another drink here, and watched the girls up dancing, but they weren't particularly stunning, nor was their dancing what one would expect from a go-go dancer.  We didn't stay long (we didn't really stay long any place, as a group of 21 students and 3 professors, we stand out and aren't super welcome since we weren't buying anything other than drinks), and soon moved to Muay Thai boxing, and the bars around there to do more observing.  Here we met a young boy selling roses, as many do, and we had a lot of fun with him, having him sit with us girls or wrestling with one of the boys.  I got a rose to put in my hair (which was done specially for tonight, 4 upside down french braids containing half my head of hair, the other half down and wavy), and watched the boxing for a bit before we moved on to a Karaoke bar.  Karaoke bars here are designed for, ideally, 3-4 men go into a room to do karaoke (usually not alone) and order drinks, and then a selection of girls are brought in, and you chose whichever ones you want and pay for their time, and then you are allowed to touch and play, but no more.  We didn't have quite the same experience, we went into the room and started karaoke-ing, until we found out we had to buy a drink to stay in the room.  In favor of not being totally trashed before the end of the trip, we passed and headed to the next place, a well-known brothel.  The girls weren't allowed to observe outright, but on our way to the bathroom we could see a group of girls with numbers on them just sitting in a room behind a large pane of glass, with men on our side.  The men would choose whomever they want for the time, and then she would come out and they would go off to a room.  When we weren't sneaking around, we sat at a table in front of the stage were three un-excited looking women were singing (lip-syncing) and dancing.  After everyone had caught a glimpse, we were off to our final stop: Adam's Apple. Adam's Apple is a gay club featuring a show (I'm not sure, but it may be every night), and of course, the boys for sale.  Not all of the boys went on stage, and not all on stage took off their clothes, but they all had their shirts off and walked around, talking or waiting to be talked to.  Tim had been several times before, so in sitting with him and Lisa (also a veteran), I was able to meet the owners, several of the boys, a kathoey (lady boy), and Tim filled me in on details about the performances or the club.  They had great music and I had an amazing time, but it was very overwhelming.  The professors and faculty that we had met up with left halfway through, as well as some of the students, but a group of us stayed until the end.  After, some of us went to grab food before meeting up with Tim and Lisa at another club.  Mike's was delicious, and after Nathan and Catherine walked me to the club before meeting up with some of the others at the bars closer to campus.  I met up with Tim and Lisa, as well as 2 of the Adam's Apple guys.  One disappeared at one point, but the other stuck around, and we talked and danced and had a great time, until it was time to go home.  I was originally going to get a ride back with him, but since the other guy left we only had one motorbike, so Tim, Lisa, and I took a tuk-tuk back to campus.  We met up with three of the guys at the gates, and walked through campus together sharing experiences and stories.  All in all a great night, and a fun start to the weekend!

    *Note, the reason the go-go dancers, singer, etc. didn't look particularly excited to see us was because a large number of us are girls, and Thai women feel threatened by Western women, especially large groups of them staring.  They know we're not there to buy.  On the other hand, the boys at Adam's Apple were very pleased to see us, because most of them are straight men, who will have sex with men for money.  Thats not considered homosexual here, because they prefer women.*

Saturday, 25/9/53

    Saturday morning was slow, lunch at 7-11, and then I started my laundry. I usually do one load per day for the 2-3 days that I do laundry, because I hang my laundry to dry outside, and there's only so much room.  We had planned to go to the travel agent to book our adventure to Koh Tao for Fall Break, but didn't end up going.  Instead, Tim and I planned a date night, eating at Mike's Burgers (YUM! [yes dad, I said yum again, but this time it should be YUM YUM!]), then taking a tuk-tuk to Adam's Apple for a more relaxed night, since last night was too crazy to really appreciate the atmosphere.  We had a drink in the bar below, and the dancer we had hung out with the night before was there eating, so we got to talk to him before we went up and the show started. We got "our" table, complete with complementary popcorn, and just chatted with the owners and boys before the show started.  This time, I took advantage of the darkness to observe the other guests, their behaviors, and their interactions with each other and the boys.  I also got to talk to more of the guys, who speak pretty good English, and I got a great back/neck/arm/hand massage by one of the boys, who was a professional masseuse!  Tim and I had a great time, just the two of us! When the show ended, it was "karaoke", aka they put the songs up (Thai songs), and its really just time for the guys to hang out with whoever sticks around (it was just Tim and I).  We were suddenly the popular kids, and I got another massage, and to talk to more boys.  One of the boys was from China, so he and Tim spoke Chinese and got chummy!  Then we decided to move to the club, and spent the next 5 hours dancing and hanging out with half the staff of Adam's Apple before motorbiking home. 

Sunday, 26/9/53

    Sunday was a nice relaxing day..ish! I woke up late (beautiful!), and was just heading to the computer lab when Skylar invited me to lunch at the restaurant I've been dying to visit, called Bake & Bite.  Bake & Bite is a quaint little cottage restaurant that serves American food, and although it was lunch, we were dying for American breakfast foods.  My cuisine of choice? CHOCOLATE CHIP PANCAKES! I've been craving them for weeks, and the time was finally here! The others got Eggs Benedict, Breakfast Burritos, Breakfast sets (a bread, meat, egg, veggie with fresh squeezed orange juice and coffee), and a Farmhouse Omelet.  We dug in and ate as if we hadn't ate in quite some time! (In reality, I hadn't eaten since 7:30 the night before, soooo....it was okay :) ).  After we had gorged ourselves, it was back to Payap for an evening of laundry, studying for the upcoming Buddhism quiz on Monday, and for Tim, Skylar and I, a dinner party with our Ajan and some other faculty.  As our Ajan is not fond of Thai food, we ordered Miguel's and had a Mexican feast accompanied by wine (one bottle, and one box...), water, and laughter.  We met one of our professors for Cambodia, and chatted with P'Nui and P'Kai (who took Tim and I to Bangkok), as well as Adam, the resident director of Payap.  We had an amazing time, listening to Ajan Ken's stories of his travels and all the cool people he's met [he cashed a check for Che Guevara, I believe].  After a scrumptious dinner and many stories, we finally headed back to campus, at which point Tim and I decided it was time to start our homework!!

Another week in the Land of a Million Smiles!

Blahh! I apologize for yet another late week! Between the internet problems I’m experiencing in my room and my busy schedule I’ve been a bit neglectful of you, my faithful followers! (Hopefully I have at least 2 so my plurality is justified…)

Sunday, 13/9/53

                Today wasn’t so much a happy day. I had a great opportunity at an unfortunate cost.  My good Thai friend’s grandmother passed away late Thursday/early Friday, so myself and two other friends were invited to come to his family’s house in Lamphun for one of the funeral days.  In Buddhist funerals, there are 4 days of events.  The first 3 days following the death are for family and friends to visit and pay their respects. At the end of the 3^rd day (today), monks from the village Wat come to pray for the deceased and the family, and the casket is put on a castle of sorts. But more about that later.

                We arrived and met his whole family and had lunch (in the same room as his grandma’s coffin…new, but not too unsettling as it turns out) before visiting the Wat that he had been a monk at.  It is actually one of the more famous Thai temples because there is proof that the Buddha himself was there. It was really quite a beautiful temple! We met the monk that ordained my friend, and talked with him for a while. By that I mean my friend talked to him and I listened, and he passed on some advice…in Thai. We went back to the house for a nap before helping the family decorate the castle. The castle is a tall structure that is COVERED in flowers, candles, lights, etc.  The coffin goes in, and the castle is rolled to the crematorium at the Wat on the fourth day (some villages have a spot in the forest specially for cremations rather than a crematorium, it just depends on where you go).  Buddhists believe that since the body is just a vessel, and there’s nothing remaining after death, it should be burned and returned back to the earth.  Some people also choose to keep a small vial of their beloved’s ashes, but it depends on the person. After the castle was decorated and evening fell, we had dinner before more guests arrived to pay their respects.  Before it was fully dark, they moved the casket from the room to the castle.  This involved taking it out of the mini cooler it stayed in (to keep the body fresh), and then they open it so that family and friends can cover the body in two things : 1) a white washcloth or 2) a card.  Now these may seem like random objects, but here is the reasoning.  The washcloth – the white cloth over the body is meant to absorb any impurities left in the body.  The cards- are embellished with prayers for the deceased, last minute donated merit and wishes for a good re-incarnation.  Then the casket is pulled on a rope by the extended family up and into the castle, waiting for guests to come visit.  When they arrived, they were greeted by the family plus three farang girls (us! ‘Farang’ means Caucasian foreigners…it also means ‘guava’), then they lit incense for the deceased and placed it to burn in a flower pot (we had done this when we first arrived, so no need to do it now).  Then they are free to walk around.  Some leave, some stay, depending on their relationship with the family.  I didn’t really notice because we had front row seats to watching the monks chant and say prayers for the deceased and her family.  After the chants there were donations to the monks (robes, fans, etc.), and then we had dessert while one lone monk chanted a story about a mother’s love for her son.  I’m not quite sure how it goes, but it lasted for just over an hour!  After he finished, we said goodbye to our friend (he was staying home for the cremation ceremony the next day, and he would be ordained as a monk in honor of his grandmother), and caught a ride home with his sister (aka cousin). 

Monday, 14/9/53

                Today we were back at Payap.  We had been invited to the cremation ceremony, however the short duration of our program made our professor unable to excuse us from class, so 10am found me in Buddhism class, taking a quiz.  After lunch was Gender and Sexuality, and then ran back to change before Tim and I were picked up by Kai and Nui for yet another TEAN adventure! This time, we headed up famous Doi Suthep to visit the beautiful Wat overlooking the city.  The drive up the mountain took a while, I could only imagine how long it would take to walk/bike it (sources say 4 hours to walk)!! Its good luck in Thai culture to walk up Doi Suthep…but I’ll pass.  Anyways we drove up, then took the lift up to the Wat. It’s quite beautiful, and you get an amazing view of the city.  We looked around, and a monk blessed us and gave us a bracelet of holy string (I don’t remember the Pali word for it off the top of my head, but I’ll try to add it in later!). I have quite a collection going! It was cold and drizzling, so we climbed down the stairs (some 500-odd stairs) and went for dinner. Tim and I passed out in the backseat right away, but 45 minutes later we woke up to find that the restaurant they had picked out was closed! We drove around and found a new place, but I was so exhausted I could barely eat.  As soon as we got back to campus I ran to my bed and sleep claimed me faster than the prodigal son was welcomed home.

Tuesday, 15/9/53

                Another day of Buddhism and Thai language classes.  Mostly uneventful, or at least uneventful enough that I can’t remember anything out of the ordinary happening…

Wednesday, 16/9/53

                After our Economic Development class in the morning, I was off with Maggie and Jenny to Baan Kingkaew (http://www.baan-kingkaew-orphanage.org/ ), a local orphanage, to do my civic duty and play with adorable Asian children!  After the initial paperwork and getting set up (they don’t allow most visitors right now, because of the sicknesses going around), we rolled up our sleeves and helped out in the laundry room, handwashing the cute little uniforms and every day clothes that last about 10 minutes on average before being peed on, dribbled on, ripped off, etc. I’m anticipating finishing this with beastly forearm muscles, so enemies beware!  Then we had an hour with each group of kids, freshly up from their naps!  My first group was a group of 3-4 year olds, who were adorably sitting in the corner when arrived, awaiting their tin cups of milk and cookies.  After the first girl triumphantly guzzled hers, she walked over and plopped herself into my lap.  This was repeated by 3 other children; until I looked like a scarecrow of children (I was perfectly content!).  By then they were all done, and ran around collecting toys, showing me said toys, playing with me and the toys, and then running away.  Not long after the cups had been put away, Mulan (the Thai version) was put on, and I was pleased. I made a group of fans by singing along in English, unfortunately my time was up and Maggie and Jenny came to relieve me.  Off to the terrible twos it was! Luckily they really weren’t that bad! As orphans, they really just want to be held and cared for.  So I had the pleasure of holding several children and just bumping them up and down, rocking and tickling them.  Unfortunately, they really didn’t want to be put down…so I held one child while 4 others clung to my legs, crying, because they figured out that when children cry I pick them up. Tricky blighters!  Maggie and Jenny soon joined me, and the three of us canoodled the children until it was time for us to go home.  They weren’t too keen to let us go, but we managed to wiggle out alive! 

Thursday, 17/9/53

Friday, 18/9/53

                Today I had an amazing time sleeping in before Thai class at 1:00. Tim, Skylar, and I ate lunch off campus at Nok’s, but my fried fish & rice (kao blah tohd) smelled yucky so I couldn’t eat it.  After, I got ice cream at 7-11 and felt much better!  Thai class was fun, as usual, and while I was waiting for the other students to come (they had gone on a Thai Culture field trip, but the aforementioned twosome and myself are in the Comparative Semester, so we don’t have the culture class), my teacher checked my homework and asked if I knew Thai before I came to Thailand!  I was pleased to admit that I only knew a phrase or two, picked up the week before departure, but I love to doodle, so the characters are fairly easy, and the language itself is easy once you get the tones down. I’m quite fond of it, really.  After class we watched yet another round of Payap’s Got Talent before dinner and then I went out early with Bupe, Burgundy, and Gina for some drinks before everyone else joined us at this cute little place called Zoe in Yellow. It’s co-owned by a Greek, a Turkish man, and a Thai woman ( fun fact: property is hard to get in Thailand for Farang, it usually has to be under a Thai person so many companies will have a Thai partner, even if they are just the lease-holder.  This lady is actually a part of the company though, and she makes great drinks!), and I got the opportunity to talk with the Turkish owner as I chowed down on one of the kebabs he sold across the street, where his restaurant is being built. Best. Kebab. Ever  (fun fact #2: a kebab and gyro are the same thing- I never knew! I knew they were similar, but it just depends on where you go!).  After we danced and had an amazing night, I turned it for an early night, taking a tuk-tuk back with another friend and hopping the gate because it was after hours (gotta love being a badass in Thailand!). 

Saturday, 19/9/53

                Saturday brought us a day of rest and relaxation, of filling people in on the night before, and a few of us took the evening to stroll Tha Pae gate area.  Tha Pae is full of tourists, so there is a lot of great American food (for myself, a ham, cheese, and bacon croissant sandwich!) and other amenities.  We found a used bookstore where I was able to get “The Lady Elizabeth” for 3 DOLLARS. YES! We met up with some of the guys at the “Lucky Bar”, and I read while they played pool and we just had fun before meeting up with some friends to take a songtao back to school together. 

Sunday, 20/9/53

                Sunday was another slow day.  We went at 1:30 to a very interesting culture museum/show, where we saw two musical groups do a few amazing numbers on interesting instruments, but the main reason we were there? Our dance Ajan, Waewdao Sirisook is a world renown Thai Dancer (http://waewdaosirisook.org/) , and she was performing a series of dances.  I have a video that I will eventually upload onto facebook, of her beautiful performance.  She did three altogether, one we later found out that she improvised, and only knew the dance moves by watching the shadows the male dancers who had rehearsed it. It was wonderful, and the whole performance was capped off by all acts performing together, dancers and musicians alike!  After that was an evening in, with McDelivery and movies, whilst studying for my quiz on Monday!

The days fly, the memories last…

REEEEEE-CAP!

Monday, 6/9/53
    Monday classes [Buddhism and Gender] passed as they always do, and in the evening a group of us went out to a market I hadn't visited yet, the Chiang Mai University [CMU] market.  We shopped around for quite some time, and I haggled to get myself a cute new dress.  It's a coral and beige number that is on the shorter end, but too cute to resist!  I was quite proud of having negotiating the cost completely in Thai, and having been so successful!  After the market we had an American moment and went for McDonalds/BK/Subway [they are all right next to each other at the night bazaar] before heading home.

Tuesday, 7/9/53
    Buddhism again, and then Thai language classes ruled my morning schedule.  It was a nice and relaxing day, I didn't really have anything to do, which is always nice!  Thai class is going very well, and I'm progressing at a fairly quick rate.  Ajan Ray, our teacher, is really a great teacher, and has made it really easy for me to remember words through the number of times she repeats the vocabulary.  The evening held nothing special, some homework and hanging out with friends before bed!

Wednesday, 8/9/53
      My only class on Wednesdays in Economic Development, so I took the afternoon to do laundry and nap/read before dinner, when the others joined from dance class.  After dinner, I hung out with my roommate and her friends while I did homework, and there was a crazy thunderstorm.  The power went out while I was in the computer lab, so I headed back up to the room, where it was hot, hot, hot!! The fans, obviously, go out with the power, so there was no source of cool air.  There was a lot of lightning out, so we went to the balcony to watch, a bolt every 2 seconds!  Burgundy called to see if I wanted to hang out, so we went outside on our way to the covered area [Kairos Square], and found a couple Thai Studies kids sitting on the stairs watching the show.  We sat with them [thank goodness I brought my blanket, cuz it was Cold!!!! The show was even better out here, as the bolts were more defined than from my room, which faces the opposite direction.  The sights were INSANE!  Lightning spiderwebbed across the skies, illuminating the heavens.  Zeus was showing off, and no matter who for, it worked!

Thursday, 9/9/53
       Thursday was a bit more of a somber day.  Immediately after class, Skylar and I went to the hospital with our friend.  Out of respect for him and his family, I won't say much, but it was a sad day.  I'm glad we could be there for him when he needed someone, although the circumstances were definitely not ideal.  Dinner was pizza hut - on crack.  Our pizza was Hawaiian, but the spin was a second layer underneath, which was tuna, a white creamy substance, and I'm pretty sure it was imitation crab.  We didn't know you're supposed to eat them separately, so I ate them together.  Definitely interesting.  After we left we went to a milk place for treats.  I got chocolate milk [their version, not toooo bad] and a mini sundae, Skylar got a milkshake, our friend got milk with something in it, and we all split warm toast with this green substance on top [YUM] and a volcano-esque shaped concoction involving cold bread covered in condensed milk mixed with ice and dye...weird.

Friday, 10/9/53
      Friday I was lucky enough to get to sleep in!  After lunch I had Thai language class, and after was my audition for Payap's Got Talent, the talent show here.  I was nervous as everything, yet still managed to somehow open my big mouth and agree to go first!  My parents always said to think before I spoke!  I did go first, and it wasn't so bad!  As many, if not all, of you know, my favorite home hobby is Egyptian Bellydancing. I had known about this show before I came, so I brought my hip scarf planning on going out for it.  I was shaking from nervousness, but did my dance and got very positive feedback, as well as 3/3 votes to move on!! I was so excited, and ran offstage with the blanket around me.  Since I didn't have time to buy cloth for a veil, I had used Skylar's blanket...which the judge definitely called me out for! I didn't mind, though, I was through! And even the judge that generally makes people want to cry said I had a lot of talent!! Tim and Gina went as well, and both got through with 3/3 votes as well-looks like America's Got Talent!  Friday night was an in-night, because we all had to be up early Saturday for volunteering!

Saturday, 11/9/53
     This morning was not only the anniversary of September 11, but community outreach program at Payap.  What better way to commemorate those who died for their country and beliefs than by aiding those whom are often neglected? In my case, children who are born with HIV, or whose parents have HIV.  Agape Home takes in children newborn-18, and takes care of them regardless of parental status.  Many children have parents who don't want them, and they find a loving home here at Agape.  It's really a great place [for more information, visit http://www.nikkisplace.org/index.html ]. There were other places for people to go to as well, including the Lanna Dog Rescue, Free Burma Rangers, other orphanages, etc.  At Agape, we helped them sort and count pencil bags that the children had made themselves.  Agape participates in a project called Samaritan's Purse, which involves a shoebox full of goodies for poor children in Africa, India, and Cambodia, among other countries.  The contents are a mixture of school supplies and fun things, such as jump ropes that the children make, so the pencil cases go in, and the shoebox [which is really a Christmas box] is put in a schoolbag, also made by the Agape children.  Through making the bags and jump ropes, the children are able to make a little money, and to learn responsibility.  They can save up their money to buy personal things, like a computer or a camera [they love cameras!].  Some of our students also helped the children make jump ropes, and they kids got to keep the profit as if they had made the ropes.  After work time was lunch time - noodle soup [gwai dee-ow] - with the children.  In the process of slurpin' my noodles up, I felt a poke in my back and turned around to find a new friend.  She smiled at me, climbed up next to me and spent the rest of lunch just hanging out.  After lunch, she had me throw away the rest of her ice cream [she was done], and then I became her toy.  She dragged me ALL over the playground, doing everything imaginable!  I have to admit it was fun to be back on the 'ground, although by the end of it i was exhausted! There was a demi-pop star there, and we sat on the climbing cage and watched as he went around to every part of the playground and had a photo shoot.  My little buddy borrowed my camera to take pictures of everything [including us], and then another girl borrowed it and followed Mark [the "star] around and took super up-close pictures of him.  After a while I recovered my camera before we hit up the swings, and then after back-bends in the grass [the kids were quite impressed with my skillz] I escaped to go inside and out of the hot sun.  We went to the temporary arcade that Dr. Tom had set up, and watched the kids play Guitar Hero while we talked to one of the Australian girls who worked there, and learned a bit more about the adoption process in Thailand and about the children.  One of the boys had been in really bad condition when he went to Agape and 4 funerals planned for him before he was even ten.  Now he's a pain in the butt, but doing much better, and that is what is ultimately important.  Next was the baby zone!  We had been waiting to play with the babies all day, and here was our opportunity!  We mostly played with Naomi, a 5 month old who's 14 year old mother was HIV positive [luckily Naomi isn't], and who couldn't take care of her.  Even more unfortunately, her mother hasn't given Agape her paperwork, so she can't be put up for adoption unless her grandmother comes and signs her over to Agape.  The other children weren't as fond of farang, but that was okay.  Before we were ready it was time to go back to school.  We were sad, but also quite tired, so a nice shower and rest was nice before we went to Reggie's [an American-student-owned sandwich shop which hosted us with a spread of yummy food for super cheap]  to present our pictures and see about other peoples' experiences.  The others did more with yard work and such, but they all had fun and made new friends, all in all a successful day!

*PICTURES!

**NOTE: it may be confusing as to why I end my date with '53', however the answer is simple: The Buddhist calendar lists the year as 2553, so I'm not  ~12 hours ahead of you, but really 43 years and 12 hours.

This week in Chiang Mai...

This week kicked off the start of our actual classes. We had only had Thai language and Culture classes before, but now in addition I had Buddhism, Gender and Sexuality, Thai Dance, and Economics in Southeast Asia; Thailand and Cambodia. Since I am doing a slightly different program, I’m no longer in the culture class, and no one from just Thai Studies is in our Economics class (which isn’t even economics, its more a review of Southeast Asia where we focus primarily on Cambodia and Thailand). The classes all went really well. Our Buddhism class has already taught us a lot, and our Gender class is taught by Dr. Stephen Whitehead, a well-known author and a fellow at Keele University in the UK. We had a hard week for readings, and I was the first to present in our Gender class, along with another girl. Luckily all went smoothly and I was able to pull together a great presentation very quickly. Thai dance is amazing, but a lot harder than it looks. I’m no amateur to dancing, and have practiced several different styles, but this is kicking my butt! Unfortunately, between all my classes and homework, there isn’t much time left over for cultural experiences; making it really hard to balance the two. After a full week I’ve decided to stop Thai dancing in favor of a more well-rounded opportunity in my core classes. I console myself thinking that I can still attend dance classes, and read while I watch the other students learn. I also already have the reading material so I can still learn about the history of the two dances.


My roommate, Nuna, and her friends are so great! I came back from Mae Chaem and Biew had bought me a little flower pot with a wire sticking up to put a picture in, its so cute! And then Friday she came over and she had bought me this cute little bag to put my cell phone in (I use it for my ipod), with an elephant on the front that says “I heart Chiang Mai”—its the cutest thing! They’re so friendly, and always share food with me and ask if I’ve eaten, etc. In fact the other night after they gave me the last of their snack I found out from another girl who speaks more English that the last one is supposed to be good luck, and whoever eats it will have good luck in finding a cute boyfriend! The friend also communicated the other unspoken things from Nuna and her friends, such as did I like them/living in Alpha? They are shy about their English and worried I don’t like living there. I assured them quite the contrary, I love coming back to my room and everyone smiles and waves! They posted on my wall that I have a beautiful smile, which contributed to the design of my Thai nickname, Fa Sai (clear skies, beautiful weather). My roommate decided that’s what it should be because I’m always smiling . They are the sweetest girls and I’m so glad that I got to meet them!

Friday night Burgundy and I decided to stay in, and we watched movies on KK’s computer (mine’s broken  ). She has a huge collection, so we got to watch two of my favorites- Mulan and Anastasia! Of course no matter where I go, my love of Disney comes along! It was a really good chance to bond with her (and Skylar who joined us for Mulan), and we got to bed at a decent time, which was good because Saturday we were up early to go on our International Camp Retreat! It was about 30 minutes from school at a 4 star resort. It was beautiful! Our rooms were like little bungalows, we had a room with 3 beds, AIR CONDITIONING! A wardrobe, desk with mirror, table, and bathroom (with hot water!). As soon as we got there we ditched our bags and ran for the pool – I cannot even describe the intense pleasure we got out of that pool! The water temperature was just right, there was a deep end, shallow end, and a connected baby pool (similar to Egyptian resort pools). We were in the pool for hours, although after 3 hours Bupe and I went for a killer nap on soft beds). There were balls to toss, Marco Polo, there was a hula hoop that was used to dive through and other such shenanigans. I tried napping outside too…but it was too hot! After a while we showered and went to Marika’s room for a dance party (woot woot!) while we waited for dinner. In the meantime, we made 3 trips to 7/11 to supplement the trip we made on the way to the resort in order to satisfy the tolerance levels of the Thai kids and more experienced drinkers in the party. It was a lot of fun, and quite out of control – probably a good thing dinner was really late! Totally worth it though! Gai yang! (grilled chicken!) There was also CORN! And carrots and sweet potatoes and sausages, etc. Quite a feast if you ask me! Later there were s’mores, but we were too busy dancing to go out, so by the time we got back to the bonfire…all gone . We did play some fun games, though, one of which required a girl, sitting on the shoulders of a guy, to crack eggs on his forehead and drop the inside yolk/whites into a cup….which was held in the mouth of some unfortunate soul laying on the ground. Whoever got the most of their 6 eggs in won…Gina won! Poor Awa, though, was covered in egg, and Dan had egg yolk on his forehead, despite Gina’s efforts to hold back his hair while she cracked.

The next day we went on a boat ride around the lake, and that was really fun until someone pointed out the HUGE spider in a web right near my head. It was still okay until it started moving, at which time we booked it to the front of the boat for pictures! (which will be uploaded as soon as I have a computer again…). The rest of the boat ride was beautiful but uneventful, and I enjoyed putting my feet in the water to cool down. It reminded me a bit of cruising up the Nile in a felucca, I was even in a dress this time as well! Minus several close Drake friends, plus several new other friends! After we headed back, and after a shower and unpacking Bupe and I got Reggie’s (a local sandwich shop) before I went out to see more of Chiang Mai at night with Champ.

I’ve come to notice that the best way to see Chiang Mai is hanging off the back of a Song-tao (red pick-up). It isn’t an actual pick-up (again, I’ll post a picture as soon as I can), there are seats in the back and it’s the most efficient means of transportation for farang (foreigners). There are two ladders on the back and a ledge, where two people can stand. You’re not seeing through a window-it’s a full-view scene, with the cool mountain breeze caressing your skin and mussing your hair, allowing you to smile at Thai people, and at farang, and everyone in between. Its an experience that can’t be read about –its one of the many things that have to be experienced first-hand to grasp the beauty. Put that on your list of things to do!